Before being referred to the Together with Parents programme, delivered by Whitehead-Ross Social Work in Kent, this family’s daily life had become overwhelming.
Despite repeatedly asking for help, the parent felt dismissed—told their concerns were “just a phase” or that they were exaggerating. Over time, this led them to believe they were at fault.
At home, life was increasingly difficult. With two young children (aged six and four) experiencing significant challenges linked to additional needs, the family had to take constant precautions—locking doors and windows for safety, avoiding busy environments, and becoming socially isolated. The children’s behaviours often escalated each other’s distress, and the lack of support left the parent feeling alone and unsure where to turn.
Finding Support
A referral from social services led the parent to Together with Parents. From the very first conversation, they felt something different—listened to, understood, and reassured for the first time in years.
Through group sessions and support from the team, the parent learned practical strategies to better understand and manage their children’s behaviours, including recognising triggers, supporting emotional regulation, and building consistent routines.
Making a Difference
Making a Difference
With the right support in place, the parent began to feel more confident in their decisions and instincts. Small changes at home led to meaningful improvements:
- Fewer extreme meltdowns
- A calmer, more structured home environment
- Greater confidence in managing daily challenges
The parent also felt empowered to seek a more suitable school environment for one of their children.
A Lasting Impact
One of the most powerful outcomes was validation. The parent realised their concerns had always been valid and that they were not alone.
Support from a team with lived experience—and connecting with other parents—made a lasting difference, helping rebuild confidence and reduce isolation.
Looking Ahead
The family now feels more prepared for the future, with clearer routines, practical strategies, and renewed confidence in advocating for their children.
The parent describes the programme as “fantastic,” sharing that they “wouldn’t be where they are now” without it.